Your column is truly insightful and provides valuable information. I’ve enjoyed reading it religiously and am grateful for the guidance it offers. Lately, your readers have had questions about wills and the consequences of not having one. I’d like to share my own experience, which really adds to the discussion.
A while back, a court-appointed attorney called me to inform me that my mother’s cousin had passed away without a will. This raised a lot of legal issues, and the division of the estate was based on the deceased person’s closest living relatives, in this case, six cousins.
What happened next was quite the shock. An attorney reached out to me to track down more distant relatives of the deceased, which was necessary because most of the six cousins were no longer around. Out of all the cousins, I and my siblings were among the only living relatives. As a result, we each received an inheritance of about $9,000, while the one remaining cousin received a much larger share closer to $60,000. All of this occurred because the deceased cousin did not have a will, and the estate was divided according to the law. What a lesson that was!
But here’s where it gets interesting. After the probate process ended, I discovered a document labeled “last will and testament” that had been overlooked. It turned out that this document left the entire estate to me and my siblings, as our mother had been the cousin closest to the deceased person. I was puzzled, because the attorneys had told me there was no will. They clarified that although there was a document, it lacked the necessary witness signature, and therefore was not considered valid under the law.
This experience has taught me the importance of having a properly prepared will. It’s a hard lesson to learn, but it’s essential for ensuring that your wishes are carried out the way you want them to be.

